In deciding what I wanted to talk
about for Valentine’s day, I got to thinking about the differences in how the
world celebrates holidays. There are far too many different ways to celebrate
Valentine’s day to list, but I did find some that really stood out.
In South Korea, women give chocolate to men on February
14, and men give non-chocolate candy to women on March 14. On April 14 (Black
Day), those who did not receive anything on the 14th of Feb or March go to a
Chinese restaurant to eat black noodles and "mourn" their single
life.
Can you imagine! Do the mourners eat alone? ROFL!! That
brings dining out alone to a new level. How about the fact the men give women
NONCHOCOLATE gifts? Who do they think they are keeping the good stuff to
themselves?
But don’t
despair. If you are among the mourners,
there are other chances for romance redemption.
The 14th of every month marks a love-related day in
Korea, although most of them are obscure. From January to December: Candle Day,
Valentine's Day, White Day, Black Day, Rose Day, Kiss Day, Silver Day, Green Day,
Music Day, Wine Day, Movie Day, and Hug Day.
Has anyone let
Hallmark in on this exploding market?
In Chinese culture, there is an older observance related
to lovers, called "The Night of Sevens" (Chinese:
七夕; pinyin: Qi Xi).
According to the legend, the Cowherd star and the Weaver Maid star are
normally separated by the milky way (river) but are allowed to meet by crossing it
on the 7th day of the 7th month of the Chinese
calendar.
Talk about star crossed lovers!
In Scotland Valentine’s Day is celebrated by having
a festival. At the festival there is an equal amount of young unmarried
(single) men and young unmarried (single) ladies who get together, each of them
writes on a piece of paper their name or a made up name, this is then rolled
up. The names are placed in two hats one for the men one for the ladies they
then have to draw a piece of paper out of the hat. Both may end up with two
valentines but the young man is suppose to stick with the valentine who has
chosen him. This having been done the company
has been split up into so many couples, gifts are given to the young ladies and
the young ladies would wear the name of their valentine over their heart or on
their sleeve. There might also be a dance and at the end of the festival there
might even be a lot of marriages or romances.
Sounds a little like Vegas!
Euphoria of Valentine's Day festival in India can be experienced weeks before
the festival. Television, radio and print media start creating hype about the festival
by covering all facets of it. Gift marketers and card companies launch a
rigorous campaign to lure the youngsters. Card and gift shops are interestingly
decorated with symbols of Valentine's Day including roses, cupid and heart
shaped balloons. Shopping malls in metropolitan cities organize fun-filled
competitions and distribute discount coupons to lure the consumers.
On February 14, the Valentine's Day restaurants, discos, Cineplex, pubs and
pizza parlors see a particularly busy time as couples celebrate the day in
togetherness. Many boys and girls even propose to their sweetheart on this
romantic day. People also express love to their friends, teachers, siblings and
parents. Popular Valentine's Day gifts exchanged in India include chocolates, fresh
flowers, cards, soft toys and candies. These are also clubbed with several
other gifts to pamper sweethearts.
Ahh, sounds like home.
Valentine’s day, the day of
love, passion, even frienship. My first valentine. I was nine, and certain the
boy was trying to make fun of me. In retrospect, I realize he was nine, and
just didn’t know what to do with a girl he liked. ROFL. Poor thing. I didn’t
help at all. I let him know I was onto his tricky way. Ahh, the joys of love.
Tell me about your valentine’s
day-your first valentine, most memorable, funniest, happiest, whatever you want
to talk about. Anything can happen on Valentine’s day.
Everyone who posts will be in a
random drawing for a $5 gift certificate from The Wild Rose Press. My contest
ends, midnight, February 26, 2009.
Good luck, and a romantic rest-of-the-love-month
to everyone!
Tarah
ROMANCING
FEBRUARY
28 romance authors invite you to participate in a month-long event of love and
laughter. Each day starting Feb. 1, 2009 an author will throw a romance
party at her blog and host a contest with a prize. The link to the next day's
blog location will also be provided at each location. Just drop by
and enter the contest. And get ready to heat up the cold wintery days of
February.
Schedule:
1 Amber Shedeck
2 Opal campbell
3 Alisha Wilson
4 Heather Hiestand
5 Ashley Ludwig
6 Nan Jacobs
7 Susan Palmquist
8 Ginger Simpson
9 Masha Holl
10 Ginger Simpson
11 Anna K. Lanier
12 Anne Carrole
13 Skhye Moncrief
14 Dayana Knight
15 C H Admirand
16 Sky Purington
17 Chelle Hicks
18 PL Parker
19 Elaine Cantrell
20 Susanne Saville
21 Bess McBride
22 Beth Caudill
23 Stacy Holmes
24 Liana Lavarentz
25 Terry Wilson
26 Tarah Scott--Be sure to visit my blog this Thursday for my contest.
27 Marly Matthews
28 TBA
My
Christmas song clue
I
don't want a lot for Christmas
There's just one thing I need
I don't care about the presents
Underneath the Christmas tree
I just want you for my own
More than you could ever know
Make my wish come true
All I want for Christmas is...
You
Your
next stop on the Christmas blog is Dayana Knight
http://dayanaknight.blogspot.com/
If
you’ve missed stops, no sweat. There’s still lots of Christmas cheer to go
around. Collect the songs to enter the grand prize drawing. One lucky person
will win a $75 Wild Rose Press gift certificate! All you need to do to enter is
attend each day's blog post, identify the carol, and make a complete carol list
to submit after the final blog post of Christmas Eve. Don't forget to check the
list twice! Send it to Christmasrideblog@live.com by
midnight, CST Dec. 31st 2008!
Any questions, just ask.